Every exotic dancer knows that eventually, she will have to give someone a lap dance. It’s just part of the job. It’s also one of those parts of the job that can be as bad or as good as you make it. Lap dancing can be one of the best parts of your job if you will just let it. There are a few things that you should know so that you can fully enjoy giving a client a lap dance. When you know what men are wanting from a lap dance, you can enjoy yourself more since you’ll be able to relax and focus on dancing.
Be Your Confident Self
All men love to receive a lap dance, but if you’re confident, they will enjoy it even more. Even if you’ve never given a lap dance before, as long as your confidence shines, he will enjoy it. It is much easier for a man to relax and enjoy receiving a dance if he doesn’t have to worry about the fact that the dancer is nervous. Is she going to fall on him? Run away or cry? Showing that you’re confident – in your moves, your looks, and especially your smile – will let him and you both relax. Plus, even if you have butterflies in your stomach, you’ll be feeling more confident in yourself if you act like you are.
The men who come to gentleman’s clubs like Rhode Island Dolls are there because they want the attention of the beautiful women who dance for them. They want to come into the club, relax, and just have a good time. While it’s also important for you to have fun while you’re doing your job, you can’t let yourself get distracted by everything that’s going on. When you give a man a lap dance, he wants to know that he’s the center of your world. Make sure you keep your eyes and your attention on him and make eye contact. If your attention wanders, he’ll know it, and you both will enjoy the dance much less.
Strut Your Stuff
There’s a reason exotic dancers, like the many dolls who dance at Rhode Island Dolls, tend to wear high heels: it makes it much easier to strut your stuff. Men love to see a sexy woman and when you’re hearing high heels, you can’t help but be sexy. High heels make you walk more on your toes which causes you to move in such a way that you become a sultry siren. Your legs appear longer, your rear end rounder, and you appear even more attractive. If you don’t have high heels you can simply walk on your toes. Like most men, the gentlemen who come to Rhode Island Dolls enjoy the sight of a beautiful woman. Appearing as your most attractive self will not only make them happy, but you will greatly enjoy the attention you get as well.
Wear Something Comfortable
Yes, you want to be sexy when you dance but you also want to be comfortable. Looking sexy does not mean that you have to wear something that is uncomfortable. You can’t enjoy dancing if your top is cutting into your chest or if your skirt is actually too tight to allow you to breathe properly! If you’re uncomfortable it will show, no matter how well you dance or how confident you seem. You’ll be moving in ways that will simply scream that you are not comfortable in what you are wearing. This will make your partner not only feel bad for you, but he won’t be able to enjoy your dance because he knows that you aren’t enjoying it. So make sure that your outfits are comfortable, easy to move in, and reveal just enough to be sexy and enticing.
Say you’re dancing for one of the gentlemen who come to Rhode Island Dolls for a relaxing evening. He’s admiring you and you’re loving the attention, as you should be so that you can have a fun time dancing. So show off a little bit! Bend over and let him get a good look at your rear end and as you come slowly up, run your hand up your leg. Move to the music like you’re dancing and putting on lotion at the same time. This has the effect of not only being incredibly erotic, but will keep his focus on your best assets while you simply have a great time knowing he finds you beautiful.