One of the best things about going to a strip club, besides seeing all the naked women, is being able to just sit and talk to a pretty girl who will listen to you. But, after a few drinks, you may be surprised at how many guys make a fool of themselves when a stripper approaches them. You might also be surprised at how many guys clam up and are suddenly shy when a stripper sits down next to them. Instead of acting like a jackass or looking like a deer in headlights when you’re at RI Dolls, here’s what you can do to play it cool when a Rhode Island Dolls dancer approaches you:
First and foremost, just be yourself. Remember that strippers are real people, and they hold conversations just like real people. You’re not going to get a free lap dance if you are extra nice to her. She’s not going to date you, so don’t even bother asking her out. All you have to do to get a decent conversation going is to start with some small talk. Introduce yourself and then talk about the weather. Or, ask her what her favorite drink is and then tell her yours. The key is to not get too excited. It is her job, after all, to be nice to you. But if you are genuinely nice, then she’ll stick around.
Keep The Conversation Short
While it’s nice to talk to a stripper at a fancy gentleman’s club like RI Dolls in Woonsocket, Rhode Island, don’t waste her time if you’re not going to request a lap dance or tip her for her time. Dolls like to be complimented, but don’t go on and on about how the dancer looks like your high school sweat heart. A simple “You’re hot” or “I like how you move” is perfect. Just like any woman, exotic dancers like to feel appreciated. They like to hear that they look good. If you tell a Doll that you like the way she moves, she move like that more often for you, especially if you get a lap dance.
There are some strippers who don’t mind talking for longer periods of time. But it’s up to you to know which ones like to chat and which ones just want to keep it short and sweet, then move onto the next dude if you’re not going to buy a dance. Don’t take it personally.
If You Invited Her, Buy Her A Drink
There will come a time when you spot a sexy dancer and you’ll ask her to come to your table. Usually this happens when you want to meet her to decide if you want to get a lap dance from her. Or, maybe you’ve already decided you want to get a lap dance from her and you’re waiting for her to finish up what she’s doing first. Either way, if you invite an erotic dancer to your table, you have to buy her a drink. Let her decide if she’s going to drink it or not. This is just common courtesy and proper strip club etiquette. You have to pay for the dancer’s time one way or another, and if you are just talking, then payment is in the form of beverages.
Just Come Right Out And Ask
Every strip club is different, so don’t be afraid to ask the stripper who approached you what the prices are for a lap dance, booth, VIP lounge, etc. You might be surprised to find out you can afford more than you think you can. This is a job to the stripper, so she won’t have any problems telling you flat out what the prices are for all the fun activities in the club. Though she’ll be hoping you’ll pay for one of those activities with her.
Let Her Go
If the erotic dancer seems to be getting antsy while talking to you, it might be because it’s almost her turn to dance on stage. It might be that she’d rather give lap dances than sit and talk. Or it may be because you’ve lost your cool and she’s ready to move on to the next customer. Respect her wishes. You don’t know what the deal is, but you should always politely tell her that you enjoyed her company. If you really want to talk to her again, then ask her if she could come back later for another drink. Or, you could ask her to come back when she has time to give you a lap dance. The key is to be polite and respectful. Don’t act like a fool.