Being closed-minded is a huge turn-off, except maybe to another closed-minded person. This is especially true in a marriage when things start to get a little repetitive and stale. If your wife has the strange idea in her head that you are closed-minded, then nip that in the bud quickly by taking her to RI Dolls. In fact, that is what many guys are doing today, as the number of women visiting strip clubs continues to soar across the country.
There are many different reasons why straight women enjoy going to clubs like RI Dolls in Woonsocket, Rhode Island. Some of the reasons include:
- They find scantily clad women to be sexy.
- It fulfills a fantasy.
- They like the up-beat music often played at strip clubs.
- They want to spice up their relationship with their man.
- They enjoy an “adults only” atmosphere.
- They don’t have to worry about other guys hitting on them, like they do if the go to a bar.
- They just want to see what it’s like.
- Security is typically more strict at strip clubs than bars, which makes women feel safer.
- Some women even enjoy watching their man get turned on by the strippers.
There is actually some science behind why people like going to RI Dolls(and other strip clubs) so much. Visiting a strip club or gentleman’s club actually reduces stress and elevates testosterone. It causes our brains to release oxytocin, which not only makes us feel better but it can also help eliminate pain. In fact, oxytocin is called the “love hormone” because it gives you a feeling of well-being and makes you sleep easier.
When both men and women interact with the beautiful dancers at these clubs, their cortisol levels go down. Cortisol is the stress hormone that is responsible for our fight-or-flight response. This hormone is also known to be an age-accelerating hormone. It interferes with memory and learning, and Cortisol can also make a person more susceptible to weight gain.
Wow! So it seems that learning to be open-minded isn’t the only positive thing about going to strip clubs. It’s actually good for your health! Give that as a reason the next time someone makes a snide remark about why you’d want to go to a strip club. And if they need to see proof, tell them to look up the study done by Empire Research.
While you can be as open-minded as humanly possible, you still have to follow a few general rules when you take your woman to RI Dolls in Woonsocket, Rhode Island, or any other gentleman’s club for that matter. In addition to the usual rules that consist of keeping your hands to yourself, not getting shitfaced, and always tipping the erotic dancers for their performances, here are a few more things you need to keep in mind:
- Your girlfriend or your wife isn’t one of the guys. Even though she’s in the testosterone-filled stripper bar with you, she’s still a female. You need to be careful of what you say. Actually, to keep yourself out of the doghouse, you should treat your evening at the strip club like a 3rd date. You don’t want to drool over the strippers in front of your girl. You don’t want to star at them too long. And always use your manners!
- Once you know she’s game for going to RI Dolls with you, you need to play it cool. Wait for her to ask you to go. While it’s very tempting for you to ask her over and over again until she says yes, don’t do it. When she’s the one who brings it up, she will feel like it’s her idea and she will feel in control. This will make your time at the strip club together better than ever.
- Apologize for any stupid thing you may have done while at RI Dolls. This is especially true the next day, when your head is clear and your remembering the events of the evening with more clarity. Or, if your wife starts nagging about how you were flirting or drooling all over a stripper. The best thing you can do is to swallow your pride and say you’re sorry. Even if you think what she is saying is ridiculous, saying your sorry never hurts anyone. In fact, it will do the opposite. Saying sorry will make your wife happier. And if she feels better about the situation, then she’ll be more apt to go back there with you.
In today’s world, where there are so many new and usual things that are quickly becoming the new norm, you have to have an open mind. But not everyone does. And if someone accuses you of being close-minded, it’s a hard claim to disprove. Though, you can always come to RI Dolls to give the naysayer proof that your open-minded. If that naysayer is your wife, then warn her that she’s going to have a great time, and you are going to have even more fun proving her wrong.