There are lots of people that gentlemen’s clubs like RI Dolls these days. Lots of people go as a way of socializing after work or on the weekends. Fathers take their sons when they become of age. Guys hang out there with their buddies. Some women even to go strip clubs. So, it’s not really a big deal. But some people still wonder if it is ok to go to a strip club by yourself.
The simple answer is yes. Lots of people do it and no one looks twice.
There are actually some advantages to going solo to a strip club like Rhode Island Dolls. For example, you don’t have to feel pressured to spend your money in any way that you don’t want to. If you just want to sit at a table by yourself in the back and watch what’s going on around you, you can do that. If you want to get 10 lapdances, you can do that, too. And you don’t have to feel pressured to buy rounds of drinks for a bunch of people when you really only want to buy one or two drinks for yourself. That can be a big plus for some people.
Another advantage is that you can be as sociable (or as unsociable) as you want to be. You don’t have to chat people up if you’re not in the mood to do that. But if you feel like talking to people there are lots of options. Of course, you can talk to the dancers but you can also talk to the bartender. You can talk to the bouncers, as well. Remember that the staff – the dancers, the bartenders, and the bouncers – are there to do a job though. They can’t just stand around chatting with you all night long and they are going to have things they have to do, so keep it short.
If you’re looking for a more in-depth conversation, there are likely many people there that are by themselves, just like you. If they don’t want to talk, they are likely sitting by themselves at a table. But if they are in the mood to talk to other people they are likely sitting by the stage or at the bar. At the bar you’re likely to find lots of solo guys that are willing to get into a conversation. You might find someone that wants to talk business or maybe there’s someone that it just dying to talk about the latest baseball game. Don’t be afraid to start the conversation. If they don’t feel like talking, they’ll let you know.
Sometimes, going to RI Dolls by yourself can be good for business, too. There are lots of business men that go to gentlemen’s clubs at the end of a hard day’s work. Many of them are open to finding new clients or making new contacts while they are there. If you see someone that looks like they are open to a business conversation, give it a shot. If they turn the conversation towards another topic, you might be better off going with that topic.
If you’re not in the mood to talk to other people, you can still enjoy the dancers. Sit at the stage and make sure to have some bills handy. They are doing a job and it’s expected that if you sit at the stage you should tip. If you’re in the mood for more, that’s great. The dancers don’t care if you’re buy yourself. Get a lap dance or a private dance. You don’t have to talk if you don’t feel like it but if you do want to talk, the dancers don’t mind listening.
Going solo at a gentlemen’s club like Rhode Island Dolls is just as acceptable as it is to go with a group of people. There are many people who prefer going to a strip club by themselves. Of course, you’re always welcome to come in a group or with a buddy, too. Gentlemen’s clubs are generally pretty accepting of everyone. You can have a few drinks, have a good meal (don’t forget to check out the RI Dolls menu when you’re there – it is fabulous and has lots of options), enjoy the dancers, and even have a good conversation. You may even make some new business contacts while you’re there. As long as you follow the club rules and don’t drink too much, you’re pretty much guaranteed to have a good time.