Before you get all worked up – no, she wasn’t a dancer and no, she didn’t work there at all. She was there with a group of other women and they were having a girls night out. Yes, at a strip club. Women like to have fun, too. I didn’t know it before but there are actually some women who think that going to a strip club is a fun night out.
Before I met Ginger, I thought that all women thought strip clubs were sleazy. It was part of the reason that I was still single at the time. I liked going to RI Dolls once or twice a week (give or take a night) and relaxing. Mostly I went with a bunch of my guy friends but sometimes I would even go by myself. I’d go and have something to eat (they have a great menu in case you didn’t know – burgers and pizzas and amazing wings) and then have a few beer and watch the dancers. Sometimes I would get a lap dance and sometimes I didn’t. I would just depend on my mood.
But I was still single because I didn’t want to give that up and I didn’t want to become one of those guys that had to do it on the sly. So, I just didn’t really do relationships.
One night, about 6 months ago, I was at Rhode Island Dolls with a few friends. We were sitting at the stage just having a drink, chatting, watching the dancers. I made sure that I had lots of change with me so I could tip the dolls on the stage and maybe get a dance later. Just sitting there minding my own business. Then Ginger walked in.
She was with a bunch of girls and they sat right in front of the stage, on the opposite side from where I was sitting with my buddies. She was gorgeous. I was really surprised. I just didn’t think that girls would ever show up at a strip joint. I’d never seen it before.
Pretty soon, I was watching her more than I was watching the dancer on the stage (and that’s saying a lot because the dancers at RI Dolls are really good and it takes a lot to draw my attention away from them). Ginger was having a great time with her friends. They were laughing and having drinks (I was pleased to see that she ordered my favorite brand of beer) and some of them were even tipping the dancer. Ginger was one of them.
When the dancer came off the stage, Ginger went up to the bar to order some more drinks. I followed her up there and had a chance to briefly chat with her. I bought her a drink and asked if I could come and chat with her later. She smiled and said, “Maybe. We’ll see.”
She went back to her girls and I went back to my guys. One of the dancers was with our group and I recognized her. She was a regular and I had gotten lap dances from her several times before. She’s a beautiful girl – but to be honest, Ginger was still on my mind.
Then I had the best idea. I wanted to see just how open minded Ginger was. Would she freak out if I got a lap dance for her? Or would she like it? If she liked it and went with it, I knew that Ginger was the kind of girl I could have a real relationship with. So, I asked the dancer if I could pay for a lap dance for someone else. She said yes and I told her who it was for. I paid for it and she went over to Ginger and whispered in her ear. Ginger looked over at me and smiled and then she looked back at the dancer and nodded.
I have to say that watching Ginger get a lap dance from that beautiful doll was one of the highlights of my life.
Ginger and I talked more that night and she gave me her number before she left. I couldn’t wait to call her. I called her an hour later and asked her if she’d go out on a date with me. As you might have guessed she agreed. Six months later, we are still together. We even go to Rhode Island Dolls in Woonsocket, RI together sometimes. But mostly, I just love having a girlfriend that is totally ok with me going there any time I want.