Our body language is always there, and it is always speaking for us, whether we know it or not. It is in the way we move our bodies. It speaks volumes and it can influence how people react to us. Body language actually matters just as much, or sometimes more, as the words that come out of our mouth. A person might be saying the right things but sometimes you can tell that they don’t really mean what they are saying.
That’s why it is important to consider what your body language is saying when you go to watch the dancers at gentlemen’s clubs, like Rhode Island Dolls, in Woonsocket, RI.
If you want the dancers to come to you when you are looking for a lap dance, you need to be sure that you are using the right body language. She wants to know that she is safe. She wants to know that you will treat her respectfully. She wants to know that she’s not wasting her time and that you’re going to be a paying customer.
If you’re sitting at a table with your arms and legs crossed and your staring down at the table, you appear inapproachable. Your using your body to close yourself off from the rest of the club, and the exotic dancers will assume you don’t want to be bothered. Even if you don’t have your arms and/or legs crossed, your eyes will say a thousand words. Instead of looking down, look around and make eye contact with the Doll you want to talk to or get a dance from. She’ll know you’re interested in you and come over as soon as she can.
If you’re overly excited and you can’t sit still, that can also be a signal for the ladies to stay away. If you’re constantly flailing your arms and moving your feet, the strippers may think you’re too drunk or too impulsive to dance for. They don’t want to run the risk of you reaching out and touching them while they try to entertain you. A strip club like Rhode Island Dolls is a classy and respectable place that provides adult entertainment, it’s not the place to be acting out of control or getting super drunk. If you can’t show the strippers the respect they deserve by controlling yourself, then they won’t want to have anything to do with you.
When you show interest in a Doll, there are several things you can do to make sure she knows it. This could be the difference between getting passed over for a dance with another customer or putting you first in line for the time of your life. You could slightly turn your upper body in her direction when she’s chatting with you at your table. This tells her that you are seriously interested in her. A small grin tells her that you might be hiding something, but that’s okay in a strip club. It also tells her that you’re flirty and looking for a no-strings-attached adventure.
Be aware of every itch and scratch. Body language experts say that every time a guy is talking to a girl and he scratches his crotch, puts his thumbs into the belt loop on his pants, or touches his belt, he’s trying to draw attention to his package. He’s doing it subconsciously, but it is what it is. If you do anything like scratch yourself or fiddle with your belt buckle at Rhode Island Dolls or any other strip club, you’ll make the ladies want to turn and run away because you pose a risk of going too far during a private dance.
Then there are people that sit on their hands. You may find yourself doing this during a lap dance so that you’re not tempted to try and touch the stripper. But oftentimes guys who sit on their hands are trying to control what comes out of their mouth. After all, you want to be nice to the stripper, but you’re not here to start a long-lasting love affair. The pressure of having something to say without being personal can weigh a lot on a guy. Dancers understand this. Don’t try so hard and everything will be fine. Take your hands out of your butt, relax, and enjoy the experience.
These are just a few examples of how your body language can affect your experience at Rhode Island Dolls. You can learn more about your body language by paying attention to the things you do with your body when you’re talking to people. After reading this, you’ll likely notice when you have your arms crossed over your body or where you touch yourself when you are talking.
When you can use your body to ensure you’re giving the right signs, your time at RI Dolls can be amazing.