Finding a woman at a gentlemen’s club like Rhode Island Dolls in Woonsocket, RI is not uncommon these days. And this isn’t referring to the sexy dancers. It’s almost normal now to find several women or more at the tables, the bar, or even at the stage. They aren’t necessarily lesbians either.
If you’re looking forward to your first visit to a strip club, you shouldn’t be worried that you’re going to be the only woman there. However, there are a few tips that will make you feel more at ease.
First of all, don’t worry about it. If this is your first time at Rhode Island Dolls, or at any gentlemen’s club, then leave your worries behind. Your man isn’t there to pick up a girl that’s prettier than you. He doesn’t like the Dolls more than you. It’s all about fantasy and entertainment, so enjoy it with him. The dancers at the strip club know and respect that you are there with your guy, and they won’t be trying to steal him away from you. They want to make sure you’re having just as much fun as he is. So, don’t look shocked when a sexy lady comes over and talks to you or asks you if you want a dance. Don’t be shy and let her perform for you. Then, watch what she does and enjoy it. Don’t forget to tip her! And pay attention to the strippers at the club, you can learn some new moves for your next roll in the hay with your partner.
Next, if negative thoughts pop into your head, keep them to yourself. As you start to realize that the dancers are real people, you may see their flaws. If you do, keep these thoughts to yourself. Guys are at the strip club for the fantasy of it all. Don’t ruin it by being mean or rude, even if it’s just whispering to the person you are at the club with. It’s a total buzz kill.
You should always be polite – even when you’re watching exotic dancers. Everyone is at the gentlemen’s club to have fun. It is the exotic dancer’s place of business, and it’s a retreat for people looking to unwind and distress. There is no reason to be rude or even down-right nasty. Remember your pleases and thank yous. If a stripper starts talking to you and asks if you want a dance, and you don’t, politely decline with a smile. If you are not happy to be there, then stay home. A sour puss will do nothing but ruin everyone’s night.
What about attire? Should you dress up or down? A gentlemen’s club like RI Dolls isn’t a dirty little hole in the wall where everyone hides in the shadows ashamed of their desire to look at naked women. It’s a prestigious club where the dancers wear gowns and are proud of what they do, so dress nicely. Put on something that you’d wear if you were going out to a nice dinner with your boyfriend or husband. You don’t want to dress too provocative or slutty. If you wear a mini skirt, a short and tight top, you will look trashy. Instead, consider wearing a nice dress that reaches at least to your lower thigh and sexy heals. Or, you can wear a nice pair of jeans, boots, and a dressy top. A night at RI Dolls is also the perfect chance to wear your best jewelry, which will look fantastic under the club lights.
Above all, don’t think that you can take a dancer home with you – for yourself or for a freaky little night of fun with your boyfriend or husband. There’s nothing wrong with getting kinky with your hubby, but a gentlemen’s club is not the place to find a unicorn for your threesome fantasies. Everyone knows that guys will never get a stripper’s number or take one home with him when he leaves. But sometimes, girls think that they are special and will be able to get a dancer to leave with her at the end of the night. You won’t. Well, I can’t say that it never happens, but the chances are slim to none. Just go in thinking that you are walking out without a stripper and then no one will get disappointed.