The lure of exotic dancing is a strong one for many women. It is easy to understand why. For many women, exotic dancing is the perfect way to make the money that they need to survive. It could be money to pay rent, for college, or to take care of their family. For some women, it is simply a lot of money to do what they want with and is more than they could hope to make anywhere else. Some women simply enjoy the way that they are admired as they dance.
Yet dancing in a gentleman’s club is not right for everyone. Here’s how to know if it is right for you.
Are You Confident Enough?
Do you have a great deal of confidence in yourself? To be a dancer in a gentleman’s club you will need confidence in spades. You need to be confident that you are capable of dancing well, able to do the job, and able to handle any kind of customer that comes in to see you,
The Other Dancers are Your Friends and Your Competition?
You also need the confidence to know that while you are in competition with the other girls, you are perfectly capable of holding your own. The other girls are your competition but they can also be your friends. You should be able to be friendly without being overly so.
Try to avoid making enemies so rumors are kept to a minimum. Rumors can be devastating for a dancer’s career. If another dancer ever said something derogatory to you, take it as something constructive and do even better rather than simply becoming insulted.
You may also have to make a stand against your friends and family. If dancing is something that you truly want to do, you have to be prepared to lose some friends and maybe even family members. Many people do not understand what dancing at a gentleman’s club really entails and may judge you harshly. If this is something that is going to bother you a great deal, then dancing may not be the best thing for you.
Do You Have The Money?
Like any other job, there are things that you will have to pay for in order to work as a dancer. Costumes and pedicures are some examples. Clubs normally charge you to dance there. Due to the fees, tip sharing, and taxes, a dancer may not make anything one night but she will still have to pay the club fees because she danced there. Make sure you will have enough money to cover it should you have a bad night where you didn’t make much. Never become a dancer when you have very little money in the bank or you could end up broke fast.