So, one of your girlfriends convinced you to come to a strip club hey? She promised that a great time will be had by all when you all go to Rhode Island Dolls in Woonsocket, but you’re a little concerned. I mean, really, what should you expect? Are women going to hit on you? Will they think you’re a lesbian? Will you be expected to get on the stage?
If this is your first time going to a strip club like Rhode Island Dolls with your girlfriends, you might be a little concerned about what to expect and you likely don’t want to ask anyone because then you’ll look like the naïve country girl. That’s ok. We’ll clue you in.
Here are some things you can expect to happen the first time you go to a gentlemen’s club with your gal pals:
#1 You Make Comparisons
Girls can’t help comparing themselves to others. It’s in their nature. So, you’re likely going to find yourself comparing what you’ve chosen to wear to what other women in the club are wearing and what the dancers are wearing. Are you going to be mistaken for a stripper in what you wore? Or do you look like an old fuddy duddy in your conservative jeans and t-shirt? The important thing to remember is that you’re all there to have a good time. Don’t worry about what you’re wearing. No one else is worried about it.
#2 You’ll Check Out the Strippers Bodies
Even if you’re only interested in the opposite sex on a sexual level, you will find yourself checking out the stripper and their hot bodies. And that’s absolutely ok. Strippers are there to be looked at. So, feel free to look as much as you like. Don’t worry – it doesn’t mean anything. It just means that you enjoy beauty as much as anyone else. And you might be surprised to find out that they aren’t all perfect. What really makes them beautiful is their confidence. They like their bodies and they aren’t ashamed of them. They can dress up or down and they are perfectly comfortable. It might be a good idea to take a lesson from them. There’s more beauty in confidence than there is in perfection!
#3 No One Gets on the Stage But the Dancers
Just because you’re at a strip club doesn’t mean that you should or even that you can get up on the stage and start strutting your stuff. A gentleman’s club is not a place to start bringing the attention to yourself. In fact, it’s pretty much discouraged. Unless it is amateur night, the only ones that are expected to get on the stage and even allowed to get on the stage are the dancers. If you can’t resist the urge and you feel that you have to get up there, it might be a good idea to get an application form and apply for a job.
#4 You and Your Girlfriends Start Sharing Stories About Same Sex Attraction
Let’s face it, most women have had a girl crush. And it’s not something that most women talk about. But because of the environment that you’re in, you and your girls might feel a little more comfortable sharing your girl crush confessions. Some of your girlfriends might even have had some same sex sexual experiences that they decided to share. If you don’t have anything you want to share, that’s fine, but be respectful of your friends, no matter what your feelings are on the topic.
#5 You Want a Private Dance
There may be one woman in particular that you can’t take your eyes off of and when she asks you if you want a private dance you find yourself saying that you do. That’s great! It’s good to open up your mind and try to new things. Don’t worry – there’s not sexual advances allowed. It’s just a dance in a private room. She might flirt with her eyes and you might even like it. But don’t worry – she’s not going to try to take you home with her or anything. It’s her job to make you feel good. That’s all she’s doing so relax and enjoy the show!
#6 You Might Think You Have a Special Connection With a Dancer…
…but she’s just doing her job and hoping for a good tip. Remember that the dancers are there to work. That’s what they are doing. And part of the way that they earn their money is from tips. So if a dancer is spending some time with you, talking, flirting, whatever – remember that she’s chose to spend it with you rather than someone else. You should compensate her for that. Give the girl a good tip before she heads back to the stage!