Once upon a time, men had “stud parties” and women had “hen parties” before a couple got married. Over time, the terms were modified to bachelor and bachelorette parties. But they were still separated. Women had their party and men had their party. Women’s parties were a celebration of getting married. Men’s parties were more of a condolence party to say good bye to their single life.
If you are getting married and you are the kind of couple who thinks these separate parties are crazy then a party for both of you at Rhode Island Dolls in Woonsocket, RI might be just the perfect way to celebrate together.
Typically, men are the ones that are more likely to have their party at a strip club like RI Dolls, but these days, women want to have a good time, too. They are eager to have drinks and have a good time and there’s no reason why a couple shouldn’t do this together. It increases trust between you and can create awesome memories.
Lots of couple get a party planner to help plan events like this – it really depends on how complicated you want to get. A party planner could potentially make it a lot more interesting but they can also make it a lot more costly.
The simple solution is to plan out the event yourself. Start by contacting the establishment and working on a plan with them. They can help you customize your event so that it fits your needs and wants and is within your budget. You can plan out things like the meals and perhaps even access to the VIP room. There are even pre-planned packages available that you can choose from. Phone 401-765-6624 to speak to someone at Rhode Island Dolls about planning your party.
If you are planning a combined party, the best man and the maid of honor can work together to make sure that both the bride’s and the groom’s interests are met. If you are having a combined party to celebrate your marriage, you should make sure that you tell the best man and maid of honor ahead of time so that they have sufficient time to make plans because a combined party will have more guests than individual parties.
The two people who are planning the party should be pretty familiar with the bride and the groom. They should know what kind of things they will and won’t like.
Also, figure out how the party is going to be paid for. The bride and the groom are already going to be putting out a lot of money for the wedding so make sure that they are not expected to cover the costs of the party. Consider what is going to be covered for guests and what the guests will have to pay for themselves. You might think about paying for the meal and letting guests pay for their own drinks.
If the party is especially big, you’ll want to make sure that there are enough dancers on that night to handle things like lap dances and private dances. Of course, you will want to select one special dancer that is to the taste of both the bride and the groom to give them an extra special dance on stage. This is always fun because everyone there will be able to take part in the fun.
Above all, make sure that everyone that is invited understands the rules and guidelines of the gentleman’s club. If the rule is no touching, make sure everyone understands that. Make sure that all the guests know that tipping is not optional as the dancers need to make enough money off the party to make it worth their while.
You can include fun games and stuff like that in a separate area of the club for those who don’t wish to be part of the fun that takes place on stage. If you do this, there may be some that are more comfortable. Make sure that the dancers understand that the people in this area of the club have opted out of offers for lap dances or private dances.
A combined bachelor/bachelorette part is a great idea and can be a lot of fun. It can bring couples even closer together. And the best part is that since both the bride and the groom are at the same party, there were never be any questions or fights about what happened at the bachelor or bachelorette party before the wedding!