Fantasy

What are the winter doldrums? For you younger people it is that blah feeling you get when the first snow has come and gone and it’s no longer pretty – it’s just plain annoying! Everything looks grey and you feel kind of grey and blah, too. The days are short with little sunshine but they…

I have always believed that people should celebrate their successes, both big and small ones. Obviously, you don’t celebrate remembering to pay your bills with a trip to Cancun. Something smaller might be more appropriate! But celebrate in a way that is appropriate for the goal you have reached. Recently, I got a highly sought,…

I had a rough time last year during the holiday season. My wife and I split up in November and my parents had both passed away in the previous years. I decided to take a new job in Rhode Island and I didn’t know a soul other than the few people I’d gotten to know…

I love the fact that I can work from home most of the time. The only time I don’t is when I’m working on the road. I have to go see clients a couple times a month but at least I’m not stuck in a boring office. I can still make my own schedule and…

My wife and I have been together for ten years now and…well, both of us were getting a little bored. So, we decided to spice things up a bit. We both had kids from previous relationships and they’d all moved out. In college or just living their own lives. It was just the two of…

Not so long ago, my marriage was struggling. I think it was just too predictable for both me and my husband. We did the same things all the time. We hung out with the same people, did the same thing every weekend. Sure, we were still having sex, but it had also become predictable. It…

As a single guy, I used to be lonely a lot. I work a lot so I don’t have a girlfriend. I just feel like it’s not fair to get seriously involved with anyone when I know I’m not ready for a real commitment. It’s not that I don’t date sometimes but I always let…

Winter can be one of the most yucky seasons. It’s damp and cold and the snow keeps coming. No one wants to be outside. If hibernation was possible, I know I would choose it. But it’s not. I still have to go to work and do a bunch of other things that require leaving the…

I’ve known a lot of guys who say they don’t like to go to strip clubs because they don’t want to compete for the attention of the dancers. I get it. There are a lot of men there and they all want the dancers to pay attention to them. When I was younger, I had…

It’s hard to believe I have to send my boyfriend back to school so soon. The summer has just flown by and I really wish he didn’t have to go but I’m going back to school here and he’s off to an out of state school to finish off his last year. I always try…

I’m pretty sure that my wife was attracted to me because I was a player. I didn’t commit to anyone. I dated around and had lots of girls that thought I was their boyfriend. I didn’t care about anyone but me. That all ended when I met my wife though. I fell for her. Don’t…

My best friend and I were sitting around eating ice cream and watching chick flicks one night and bitching about how hard it is to meet a good man. I know there are good men out there – I see them everywhere I go. The only problem is, they are married to my friends, my…

I can’t believe the summer is over already and it’s time to go back to classes at college for another year. I know I’m going to be stuck listening to boring lectures in crowded classrooms for another year but it is what I have to do in order to get that big money job.  It…

My mom always throws a big bash for my dad on his birthday. It’s the same crew of family and friends and neighbors every year. I don’t know how he manages to sit through it with a smile on his face but I guess he does it for my mom. This year though, on his…

If I told you that I’m not a fan of summer would you be shocked? Sure, seeing all the beautiful women in summer dresses on the streets is a perk. Gorgeous women in bikinis are pretty awesome, too. I’m not immune to the fact that in the summer, women wear less clothing and seem to…

It seems like I never get enough vacation days, so each day off is a gift. Today is my first vacation day this summer and I planned to spend it at the beach soaking up the warm sun and looking at the hot girls in bikinis. That’s my favorite thing to do over the summer.…

Just because I’m an older guy with gray hair, it doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate beautiful young women anymore. In fact, I love women. Now that my wife has been gone for about a year, I’m ready to visit a strip club again. She never had a problem with me going to strip clubs in…

My girlfriend and I wanted to do everything that we possibly could before we got married and settled down to have a family. So we did lots of traveling and we had some awesome party years (both together and on our own.  At the end of the day, we knew we still wanted to be…

I hate spring. Ok, yes, it’s great because the weather warms up and the sun comes out and melts the snow. But you know what else spring means? In our house, it’s spring cleaning. I don’t know where my wife got the idea but every single spring she needs to do this mass cleaning. She…