Is it a good idea to go to a strip club like Rhode Island Dolls in Woonsocket, RI by yourself? Isn’t that the kind of thing you should do when you have a bunch of guys with you?
The truth is that lots of guys go to gentleman’s clubs in Woonsocket on their own. There’s no need to wait for a guy’s night out to head to a strip club. It doesn’t make you creepy and it doesn’t make you desperate. It just makes you able to enjoy a night out on your own and have a bit of fun.
If you do choose to go to RI Dolls by yourself, here are a few things to keep in mind:
Ditch the self-consciousness. Remember that you have a right to go to a strip club by yourself and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you at all. Lots of men do it. Just get dressed, comb your hair, grab some cash and walk in like you own the joint. Ok, maybe “own the joint” is going too far. But just do it. You won’t regret it.
Talk to others. Just because you’re on your own doesn’t mean you have to sit by yourself and be a loner. Of course, you’ll talk to the dolls because they are so nice and easy to talk to. But you can talk to the bartender, the bouncer, and other guys. Don’t be afraid to talk to the other guy that’s by himself or even a group of guys. You never know. They might ask you to pull up a chair and enjoy a drink with them.
Get something to eat and drink. If you’re nervous about going solo to a strip club and need to ease into the situation, order a beer or whatever your drink of choice is and a meal. You’ll have something to focus on when there’s not a dancer on the stage and you’ll feel less self-conscious. You can focus on your food if you’re not sure where to look or what to do. Rhode Island Dolls has an awesome menu that will give you lots to choose from. Whether you are a wings man, pizza guy, or steak lover, there’s some great food choices on the menu. You can even order an appetizer while you’re waiting for your main course to get there. The food is hot and fresh and tastes awesome, so beside giving you something to focus on, you’ll get the opportunity to enjoy a really good meal. We all gotta eat right? So why not eat at RI Dolls.
If you don’t like sitting by yourself at a table you’ve got two other choices. You can sit at the bar while you enjoy your drink. Chances are, there will be other solo guys at the bar so you won’t feel alone. Or, you can sit up by the stage. When you sit at a stage front table, you don’t have to worry about what others are thinking of you because you’ll be focused on the dancers. And so will everyone else. No one will care that you are there by yourself.
Remember that the dolls are there to do a job though. Yes, that job is to entertain you and to dance for you and to make you feel great but part of that means that they are there to make money. Don’t suck up all of their time without compensating them for it. If they are spending time talking with you, get a lap dance or a private dance so that they are not taking time away from other people that will pay them. And don’t forget to tip them.
The same goes for other staff, too. If you’re sitting at the bar chatting up the bartender, don’t forget to make it worth his time. Even if you only have one drink, you can give him a healthy tip.
Finally, be safe if you are going to a strip club by yourself. Don’t drink and drive. If you’re drinking at all, call a cab on your way home. Or limit your drinking so that you stop drinking a couple hours before you’re going to leave. Ultimately, it’s best to take a cab. You can still have a good time and you’ll be safe on your way home. So will other people on the road. It’s just not worth putting your life or the lives of others at risk by drinking and driving.