Times have changed a lot and it’s not uncommon to see women at a gentlemen’s club like Rhode Island Dolls in Woonsocket, RI. If you’re a woman who has been thinking of going, know that you are welcome there.
Women come all the time with their spouses, boyfriends, and even with their girlfriends. And sometimes they even come by themselves. It’s a welcoming environment and female customers are treated the same as the men. But, women who go to strip clubs don’t usually talk about it with their girlfriends if they aren’t the kind of women that they think will go to a strip club.
So, if you’ve been considering going to a gentlemen’s club, here’s 5 things that you should know before you go:
#1 What You Wear Matters
A gentlemen’s club like RI Dolls isn’t a dirty little hole in the wall where everyone hides in the shadows ashamed of their desire to look at naked women. It’s a prestigious club where the dancers wear dresses and are proud of what they do, so dress nicely. Put on something that you’d wear if you were going out to a nice dinner with your boyfriend or husband. You don’t want to dress too provocative or slutty. If you wear a mini skirt, a short and tight top, you will look trashy. Instead, consider wearing a nice dress that reaches at least to your lower thigh and sexy heals. Or, you can wear a nice pair of jeans, boots, and a dressy top. A night at RI Dolls is also the perfect chance to wear your best jewelry, which will look fantastic under the club lights.
#2 Don’t Be A Negative Nelly
So, you’ve had a few drinks and you’ve watched a few Dolls dancing on stage. You’ve probably given a stripper a few tips for her stage performances. As you start to realize that the dancers are real people, you may see their flaws. If you do, keep these thoughts to yourself. Guys are at the strip club for the fantasy of it all. Don’t ruin it by being mean or rude, even if it’s just whispering to the person you are at the club with. It’s a total buzz kill.
#3 Mind Your Manners
Everyone is at the gentlemen’s club to have fun. It is the exotic dancer’s place of business, and it’s a retreat for people looking to unwind and distress. There is no reason to be rude or even down-right nasty. Remember your pleases and thank yous. If a stripper starts talking to you and asks if you want a dance, and you don’t, politely decline with a smile. If you are not happy to be there, then stay home. A sour puss will do nothing but ruin everyone’s night.
#4 Leave Your Worries At Home
If this is your first time at Rhode Island Dolls, or at any gentlemen’s club, then leave your worries behind. Your man isn’t there to pick up a girl that’s prettier than you. He doesn’t like the Dolls more than you. It’s all about fantasy and entertainment, so enjoy it with him. The dancers at the strip club know and respect that you are there with your guy, and they won’t be trying to steal him away from you. They want to make sure you’re having just as much fun as he is. So don’t look shocked when a sexy lady comes over and talks to you or asks you if you want a dance. Don’t be shy and let her perform for you. Then, watch what she does and enjoy it. Don’t forget to tip her! And pay attention to the strippers at the club, you can learn some new moves for your next roll in the hay with your partner.
#5 Don’t Try To Pickup The Dancers
Everyone knows that guys will never get a stripper’s number or take one home with him when he leaves. But sometimes, girls think that they are special and will be able to get a dancer to leave with her at the end of the night. You won’t. Well, I can’t say that it never happens, but the chances are slim to none. Just go in thinking that you are walking out without a stripper and then no one will get disappointed.